tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post115452399459788302..comments2023-03-21T07:07:50.202-04:00Comments on 2amsomewhere: Her Love in a Nutshell?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-1154846020020576432006-08-06T02:33:00.000-04:002006-08-06T02:33:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Urban Pisceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01812885610661432155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-1154727048938712352006-08-04T17:30:00.000-04:002006-08-04T17:30:00.000-04:00OK, first thought, based on your description: she'...OK, first thought, based on your description: she's badly badly spoiled.<BR/><BR/>Second thought, based on Rudy's comment: she's not so badly spoiled, you're just resentful enough that it feels that way to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-1154726802348312382006-08-04T17:26:00.000-04:002006-08-04T17:26:00.000-04:00Your resentment at this seems like an overreation ...Your resentment at this seems like an overreation or overthinking. <BR/><BR/>BAck when I was in counseling a good piece of advice I got was to try to check my reactivity to stuff W said or did. Sometimes pent up resentment produces an overreaction to a minor offense. This is why being able to vent stuff during counseling sessions and otherwise is good. Even if W doesn't hear it perfectly, you feel better having said it. <BR/><BR/>I checked out the book author's website and was a bit turned off by their religiosity.<BR/><BR/>Also, I was skeptical of your counselor's emphasis on parental relationships. But your description of the excercise probably did a number of things: make each of you aware of the possibility of the dysfunctions in your relationships with mother/father respectively affecting your relationship with each other, verify or refute the mindset of how well each of you listen or process what you've heard from each other, and practicing effective communication (repeating what you've heard to verify understanding). So, I'm impressed with your counselor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-1154551488153167772006-08-02T16:44:00.000-04:002006-08-02T16:44:00.000-04:00Do you actually still love this woman? Why? I hate...Do you actually still love this woman? Why? I hate to say this, but it certainly doesn't sound like she loves you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com