tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post6807654972013257469..comments2023-03-21T07:07:50.202-04:00Comments on 2amsomewhere: Good Essay on ValidationUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-8732470805018660022007-01-15T22:17:00.000-05:002007-01-15T22:17:00.000-05:00I have a lot of different ideas and reactions abou...I have a lot of different ideas and reactions about the lifestyle issues and marital problems you describe. First, I am sorry that things are not going well. From a purely financial point of view, the stress must be terrible, esp the high balance credit card. I wish I had a solution to offer. Your wife seems to be living in denial for sure.<br />That said, working far away and making more money will help, sort of. But it also gives you a fractured lifestyle. As for divorce, how will you afford two homes?<br />Could your wife get a job? If you divorce, she will have to. <br />I see a lot of the problems as financial but what do money problems represent?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-80102130032256841382007-01-15T18:21:00.000-05:002007-01-15T18:21:00.000-05:00I agree, you seem to be on the right path. And Lo...I agree, you seem to be on the right path. And Lord knows you are miles ahead of me on the ability to think in abstract terms. But you also seem intent on making things right and making the right decisions and to me that is half the battle.Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429112740298181455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31278044.post-86898494020433141472007-01-14T17:45:00.000-05:002007-01-14T17:45:00.000-05:00I have every confidence in your ability to make a ...I have every confidence in your ability to make a good decision and to carry it out effectively. I think you are well on your way to a more authentic life, and probably a happier one. May I also say, your ability to think in abstract terms about psychological matters never ceases to amaze me. My own intellectual abilities are, um, quite different (if every bit as formidable). I wish you well, as always.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com